in-laws
I am thinking on how I could write this article well. I'd like to start it with horror stories about in-laws but I guess everybody is already aware of it... so I'd just say what I wanted to say... you cannot choose who your family members will be but you can choose who your in-laws will be in the future.
You cannot choose who will become your family members. It is randomnly given by God. As you grow, there may be instances wherein you will not understand each other but in the end you will still be each others family. You will forget what had happen in the past and just move on. No grudges, no hard feelings. Whether your the eldest or your the bunso, respect will always be there.
This is how we were brought up by our parents, and I salute them for that. This is the way we manage misunderstanding in our home... but I learned that once you stay with other families, they handle it in different manner.
It is just so sad that people who consider themselves as professionals do not know how to act like one. Tambays and taong-riles can sometimes do better than they... hay!
You cannot choose who will become your family members. It is randomnly given by God. As you grow, there may be instances wherein you will not understand each other but in the end you will still be each others family. You will forget what had happen in the past and just move on. No grudges, no hard feelings. Whether your the eldest or your the bunso, respect will always be there.
This is how we were brought up by our parents, and I salute them for that. This is the way we manage misunderstanding in our home... but I learned that once you stay with other families, they handle it in different manner.
It is just so sad that people who consider themselves as professionals do not know how to act like one. Tambays and taong-riles can sometimes do better than they... hay!
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